A Mother's Intuition: Why Trusting Your Gut Can Lead to the Best Outcomes
A Mother’s Intuition
There is a strong instinct that comes with motherhood, an intuition that is hard to explain. It's a feeling deep in your gut that tells you what's best for your child, and it is important to listen to it.
Going with your gut when it comes to your children is not only important, it is essential for their well-being and growth.
How do we decide what we will teach our children? How do we raise them to be kind and loving humans, while also showing them that they can say no? That they can say I don't like something and would prefer not to engage?
Trust Yourself, As the Parent
Start by telling yourself that it is okay to say those things. YOU start by saying "this makes me uncomfortable and I do not want to be around it". It is definitely okay to say no!
Then, go with your gut. Seriously. Think to yourself, does this feel wrong? Is this something that I really want to show my children?
Find your answer and stand firm in what YOU believe. Not in what the crowd is saying, not what you hear from social media says, what YOU believe.
You Know Best
One of the reasons it is important to trust your gut is because it is based on your unique knowledge and understanding of your child.
No one knows your child as well as you do.
Your instincts have been shaped by the experiences and observations you've had with your child.
Trusting your gut allows you to make decisions that are in the best interest of your child, taking into account their unique needs, personality, and temperament.
Protection
Another reason to trust your gut is that it helps you to protect your child. As a mother, your priority is to keep your child safe, and your instincts often pick up on potential dangers and risks.
For example, you might have a gut feeling that something is wrong with your child even if they don't show any obvious symptoms. By listening to your gut and seeking medical attention, you can protect your child from harm.
Confidence
Going with your gut also allows you to be a more confident parent. When you trust your instincts and make decisions based on your gut feelings, you are more likely to feel sure of yourself and your parenting choices.
This confidence can help you to be more effective in your parenting, and can also help to reduce stress and anxiety levels.
Accept Guidance from Others
It's important to note that following your gut does not mean ignoring other sources of information or advice.
You should always take into consideration the advice of doctors, teachers, and other experts in the field of child development.
However, when it comes down to it, the ultimate decision should be based on your gut feelings and what you believe is best for your child.
Go With Your Gut
Going with your gut when it comes to your children is important for their well-being and growth.
Trusting your instincts allows you to make decisions that are in the best interest of your child, protects your child from harm, and helps you to be a more confident parent. So, mothers, listen to your gut and trust your instincts when it comes to your children!